Here are a couple of examples and how it turned out for me: Repeating The Same Relationship: In my early 20s, I never put men first in my life. It wasn’t that I wanted him back—I cheated on him for a reason.
You approach it more like an obligation, which doesn’t lead to any results. Once upon a time, you would jump at every opportunity to meet someone new.
If both of you love each other, and yet, both of you seem to have a few difficulties coping with a particular issue that’s bringing out the worst, a break from each other may be the need of the hour.
The two kinds of breaks in a relationship There are two kinds of breaks in love, one that’s good and one that does more harm than good. Are you genuinely interested in your lover and want to hold the relationship together?
And I know I was hurting these men because they all knew I could take them or leave them. That’s when I decided to take a break from dating until I discovered what I wanted out of it. At least I was finally being honest with them and myself for once.
I knew exactly what I wanted for myself: world travel and my career.