A study by Sidekick says the perfect subject line is unique to the recipient and contains 30 characters or less, just to name a few suggestions.
Same goes for the entire message in general — keep it short! If you want to be the most boring, unoriginal person who has ever reached out to this woman, then simply say “Hi, how are you?
First of all, you need to come to the table with a conversation topic.
A thought provoking, fun, playful message that stands out from all the lame messages cluttering up her inbox. It looks like you have a good sense of adventure, so tell me this: If someone were to offer you an all-expenses paid trip to anywhere in the world but you had to leave in the next hour, where would you go? You want to let her know you’re genuinely interested, but you don’t want to appear desperate for her response.
If she uses a professional headshot as her profile picture, you might conclude that she wants to be taken seriously.
If she uses a picture of her ziplining through the jungle, you might try to appeal to her adventurous side. Try to pick up on what she is passionate about — she'll be more apt to respond if you ask her about something she’s interested in. If you ask about something you are mutually interested in, you'll have a much easier time keeping the conversation flowing.
You sent the first message, they replied – congratulations, everyone is onboard and ready to roll! It can be hard to keep a conversation going with someone you don’t know YET, and who isn’t sitting across the table from you. Is that you don’t know what makes them tick yet – or even if it’s worth finding out…
If you find yourself stuck one message in, and you want some advice on how to spark up an interesting conversation that will tell you whether this person is worth getting offline for, read on.
If this doesn’t peak her interest, she most likely won’t read any further.
Today, I’m delighted to say that our blog has been hijacked by the very cool dating expert, Claudia Cox.
She is the author of ‘French Seduction Made Easy‘ and is passionate about sharing her expertise on communicating well in relationships especially via flirty texting.
Once you’ve found someone that catches your eye, look through her photos (as if we had to tell you that).
This is often the best place to figure out her personality, since her photos are an indication of how she wants to present herself.