I have nothing against guys my age; I have tried dating them, but I have constantly come across the following:– They're not ambitious enough, or they don’t have a go-getter attitude.– They're not financially stable.– They still want to date around.– They have had baby mama or ex-wife drama.– They don't have their sh*t together.
I'm not saying every guy in my age group is like this, but overall, my personal experience hasn't been fulfilling for me.
And Albert would probably agree, there’s nothing wrong with that. But here’s the thing: When it comes to creating a passionate, fulfilling, lasting love relationship with the one, most-amazing woman of our dreams, the whole game changes.
That kind of woman is looking for very specific qualities in a man – qualities that communicate his value as a mature, in-control partner who’s capable of sharing and contributing to her life, love, and dreams.
However, sex won't feel like making love until you are in a serious relationship. And if it doesn't, consider it a message from your lady parts to move on.
Every finger placed on your body will ignite your senses. You will almost always find a guy at the bar, waiting to make his move or wandering around the place and waiting for the right lull in your conversation to introduce himself.
Ladies, it’s time to stop thinking about boys and start looking for men.
Boys are a waste of your time, and they usually just have one thing in mind.
He approaches love in the same way that he approaches everything else in life: with a laser focus on achieving “victory.”It doesn’t take a genius IQ to know that this is a formula for disaster.Making love is the difference between dating a man for three weeks and being with a man for half a year or more. The man you want is actually in the back of the bar or club, sitting down with his squad. He doesn't need to talk to every woman in the venue to feel good about himself, and he doesn’t need to try to have a “happy ending” at the end of the night.All he needs is his friends and a few drinks, and he's content.I always seem to date guys between 10 to 20 years older than me, and from my relationships comes some of the best memories and experiences.I still get the common response from my friends: “He's too old for you! ” I've also had a few people in my life suggest that I do it because I am a “gold digger.”So, the broad answer is this: To clarify, I'm not dating older men because I am a “gold digger.” It's more important for me to pull my own weight and be financially stable.While you figure out the math, let me be clear that I’ve met several other women in their early- to mid-20s who also prefer to date from a much older pool for various reasons.And while cliché dictates that, sure, men are into it, there’s been some recent research done about younger females often gravitate toward mature men.From work and sports to our efforts with women and dating, the immature man’s driving forces are (usually) instant gratification and conquest.He’s always at the ready to shift into beast mode to “win” and get what he wants.Or, Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones, who are 25 years apart in age?In their defense, I hardly grew up dating or crushing on men close to my age group.